Throughout the nuptial ceremony, there are several critical elements that require attention. These include the bridal price, the dowry, and the customs that follow the wedding. Each of these components plays a vital role in guaranteeing that the event unfolds as intended.
Dowry
Among Muslim cultures of Indian and Bangladeshi origin, dowry is becoming increasingly prevalent. In these cultures, the groom must purchase a car and an apartment for his future wife. In some cultures, the groom must purchase land for his wife.
Dowry is often given in cash. The bride's family pays the dowry to the groom's family. It can be in the form of gold coins, currency, jewellery, bedding, and clothing. However, the money should be given according to the financial capacity of the bride's family. It should not be given by coercive means.
Islamic Dowry has a religious and ritual value. It is a symbol of piety, obedience and love for the bride. The amount of dowry should not be excessive or burden the groom. The amount should be agreed upon at the time of marriage or at the time of dissolution of marriage.
The amount of dowry should be reasonable and should not cause hardship to the groom or the family. If the dowry is excessive, it may create a resentment among the groom and his family. It can also lead to harassment of the bride.
The custom of giving dowry is becoming more and more common in Muslim cultures of Pakistani and Indian origin. It is influenced by the Indian culture.
It is also practiced in South India. The dowry is called Jahez. It is not specifically promoted by Islam. The custom is not mentioned in the Sunnah.
The Muslim Ulema are of the opinion that dowry should be limited to small amounts. Excessive dowry is considered israf (irreligious) by Shariah. Such practices are not conducive to love between couples.
The custom of giving dowry has become an ostentation. It is a ridiculous attempt to justify flamboyant displays of wealth.
Bride-price
During the course of a marriage, the man must give his wife the requisite dowry to consummate the marriage. Known as mahr, this is an Islamic obligation. In fact, the Qur'an is very clear on the subject.
According to the Qur'an, mahr is the best award for a bride. The tradition is attested in a variety of languages including Hebrew, Arabic, Syriac, and Hausa. Historically, it was a small gesture that provided a measure of financial protection for the wife.
The bride-price is a tradition credited to the prophet Muhammad. It has been practiced by Muslims throughout the world, including Africa. However, the bride-price has been abused over the years.
The bride-price is actually a small item, but it has been used to cover a wide range of expenses. In some cultures, it is even equivalent to dowry.
The bride-price is usually paid to the bride's family before the wedding takes place. The bride-price is usually in the form of cows, and can take months to negotiate.
The bride-price is one of the most important elements of an Islamic marriage contract. The bride-price is usually agreed on by the bride's family and the groom's family. The groom's family is also expected to provide for notable wedding expenses.
There are a number of critics of the bride-price, including feminists, scholars, and artists. Some young women are voicing their displeasure at the bride-price. They are demanding that it be abolished, or at the very least, re-examined.
It is also worth noting that the bride-price isn't the only item of its kind. Some cultures practice both marriage payment traditions simultaneously. It may be hard to justify the bride-price in low-income countries.
Mahr
Traditionally, Mahr is a gift that is given to a woman before marriage. It is a gift that is given to reaffirm the commitment of a man to his wife and is a symbol of his honour.
Mahr can be a monetary gift, a non-monetary gift, or a recitation of the Quran. It is a symbol of honour, a sign of responsibility, and a mark of the man's desire to support his wife.
According to Islamic law, the mahr should be a small, but significant, gift. The minimum amount of mahr is 10 dirhams, which is equivalent to 200 rupees. The gift can be anything valuable, from currency to jewelry. The gift should not be a burden on the man, as Islam prohibits fixing more mahr for show.
Mahr can be given on credit, but it should be repaid at an agreed time. If a woman decides to leave her husband after marriage, she has the right to retain her mahr. It is also her right to take the entire divorce settlement.
There is no specific rule in Islam regarding the maximum amount of mahr. The mahr should be easy on the man's pocket and should be able to satisfy the wife's needs. However, a large amount is considered a sign of gratitude from the husband. The wife is also able to assign mahr to a person or family.
The best marriage is the easiest marriage. The easiest marriage is also the cheapest. If the mahr is too large, it can signify a miserable marriage.
The mahr is a gift that is supposed to give the woman financial stability. The gift is not intended to make the woman feel pampered.
Post-wedding rituals
Traditionally, the bride and groom are welcomed by their families after the wedding. They are introduced to their new families and receive gifts. In addition, the bride is introduced to her new family's customs and traditions. This ceremony also serves as a way to announce the wedding to the community.
This ceremony is conducted in a mosque. It is usually conducted by a religious priest. It consists of reading the seven marriage benedictions. These benedictions are meant to ward off evil spirits. The bride and groom are also blessed with monetary gifts.
The wedding money is given to the bride in two parts. The first part is given before the wedding and the second part is given after the wedding. The bride is also blessed with a wish to never experience widowhood.
The bride and groom are welcomed by their families with gifts and rose water. They are also introduced to their extended family. These gifts are usually accompanied by a lavish spread. The bride also receives her wedding outfit. Some families also send toiletries for the bride.
The groom's family then visits the bride's house and gives the bride gifts. The mother of the bride also brings gifts for the groom. She also brings a coin which is ominous. This coin is a sign of the bride's formal acceptance into the groom's family.
The groom's family then leaves the groom to prepare for the wedding. During this time, the groom is required to wash the bride's feet. He must also sprinkle water in all the corners of the house.
A wedding reception is also organized by the groom's family. In addition to the gifts and food, the reception party also includes dancing and fun.
Shaadi
During a Muslim wedding, there are a number of traditions. Some are more significant than others. One tradition is a dowry (Mahr) which is presented to the bride.
This dowry is presented before the marriage, symbolizing her independence and freedom. Often, it is also presented to the bride as an offering of respect. In addition to Mahr, the bride may also receive money.
The amount of dowry required is determined during a pre-wedding meeting. This is usually done by both the bride and groom's parents.
The dowry may be cash, property, or gold coins. The dowry should be modest. While extravagance is not forbidden, Islam advises that individuals should spend as they are able. It is also important to avoid wasteful spending.
The Nikah-Namah is an Islamic marriage contract. It is read aloud in Arabic during the wedding ceremony. It is signed in front of the guests. This is an important part of the ceremony. The bride and groom must both accept the offer by saying "qabool hai" three times.
A "Milad" is an Islamic ceremony that involves friends and close relatives reciting Islamic blessings. It is a very fun tradition at South Asian Muslim weddings.
A "Rukhsati" is the final tradition performed at a wedding. It is a bittersweet moment for the bride. This marks the end of her childhood and marks the beginning of her new life with her husband.
Another important Muslim wedding tradition is the "Mehndi" (Henna). The bride's feet are adorned with henna dye. She may also be given henna tattoos on her palms.
Aside from the Nikah-Namah and the Milad, there are many other wedding customs. These include the Baraat (the groom's wedding procession), the Mehr (the ceremonial gift presented to the bride), and the Joota Chupai (the hiding of the groom's shoes). These are only a few examples of the many Shaadi wedding traditions.
