Should you be considering marriage with a member of the LDS Church, then exploring the numerous books aimed at fortifying your relationship is a good idea. A fantastic selection is Shannon Alder's 350 Questions LDS Couples Should Ask Before Marriage. This book delivers an extensive array of essential questions partners should discuss prior to getting married. It serves as an effective tool for LDS couples looking to enhance their intimate relationship, while also incorporating wisdom from the scriptures and teachings from the Church.
Between Husband and Wife: Gospel Perspectives on Marital Intimacy
Between Husband and Wife: Gospel Perceptions on Marital Intimacy in Latter-day Saint Marriage Books is a book that's about sex in marriage. While the author focuses on men and women in their relationships, women can benefit from this book, too. There's an interesting comparison between the two. One book discusses the role of the sex-guides in the lives of men and women. The other book addresses how marriage can improve relationships.
The Revised Edition of Between Husband and Wife: Gospel Perceptions on Marital Intimacy is written by Dr. Stephen E. Lamb and Professor Douglas E. Brinley, two LDS scholars who have spent years studying the topic of intimacy. Both authors have incorporated new research and information from modern prophets and medical sources to help readers learn about the importance of intimacy in marriage.
The second edition of Between Husband and Wife: Gospel Perceptions on Marital Intimacy in Latter-Day Saint Marriage has become a bestseller in just six weeks. In fact, it has even sold more than 1,500 tapes. But, as with most best sellers, the book is out of print. Publishers hope non-Mormons will buy it because of its message.
When discussing sexuality in marriage, it's important to distinguish between lustful and holy passion. While specific acts are not wrong, the spirit behind them is. Those who are truly passionate about their relationships will experience the joy of sexuality and willfulness of marriage. If lustful passion is done correctly, however, it can be ennobling and unifying.
Despite its controversial subject matter, Between Husband and Wife: A Guide for Latter-day Saint Couples
Dr. John L. Lund’s book Strengthening Marriage through Sexual Fulfillment
If you're looking for a book that will strengthen your marriage with humor and great advice, this might be the one you need to pick up. In his book, Dr. Lund discusses the various issues pertaining to intimacy in marriage, including the differences between men and women and how to approach these issues in an effective manner. You'll also learn how to create and maintain physical intimacy with your spouse.
This book is based on research in the field of marriage and family relations. Many authors have studied marriage and sexual fulfillment, including Fink and Wolfe. They have also published books on marriage and family. And, if you want to read more about the psychology behind it all, Dr. John L. Lund's book contains plenty of examples. The author provides a helpful chart that will help you learn how to communicate with your partner and improve the quality of your relationship.
While the book is written primarily for women, it's great for both sexes. It's full of practical advice and exercises that will help you and your husband work through common problems in a healthy marriage. Although it's written from a woman's perspective, Dr. Lund's book is useful for men as well. The book is full of humor and offers great motivation for both partners.
Brinley’s book
Douglas E. Brinley, professor of Church history at Brigham Young University, is an LDS marriage author and editor. In his book, titled Marriage: Strengthening the Bonds of Love and Marriage: How to Create a Spiritually Healthy Home, he encourages LDS couples to create a spiritually healthy home. The book is divided into three parts: introduction, middle years, and aging. Though it was written for a LDS audience, this doesn't mean that the content is approved by the church. Brinley's book is not just for married couples. In fact, it's also for singles and those trying to strengthen their relationship.
It's a must-read for LDS members who want to strengthen their marriages. Written by two Mormons, Brinley and Judd cite a number of LDS church leaders to explain the importance of marital intimacy within a scriptural framework. The authors, Dr. Stephen E. Lamb, and Brent A. Barlow, are LDS leaders and doctors who have served in the Church for more than twenty-five years. They saw a need for a reference guide for LDS couples in their own communities, and sought to provide a practical guide to the topic.
The book is a step-by-step progression for a happy marriage. Brinley offers the path toward a happy marriage and a softer heart. She also points out that you can develop your sensitivity and resentment by recognizing the truth in the doctrine. While the book is a must-read for any LDS couple, it's worth reading if you're in a sexy or abusive marriage.
A few recent LDS marriage books also address issues regarding sex. Love Your Husband by Debra Evans and Honey, I'm Home for Good by Mary Ann Cook are both recommended reads for LDS couples. In addition, these LDS marriage books come with journal pages and application questions. The books are a good choice for LDS couples who have trouble keeping their husbands happy. The LDS Church has a long tradition of writing marriage books and this is one that will stand the test of time.
